What To Do When Someone You Know Becomes Someone You Knew

Listen to me gingerly champ,

I know it’s tough when you lose your loved one or someone walks away from your life without any valid reason.

This quote has echoed in my head from the day I read it.

“When Someone You Know Becomes Someone You Knew”
– Henry Rollins.

First of all, it’s not your fault, stop beating yourself if it didn’t work out. Love is not something which can be bought even if you poured your soul out. Love is a natural feeling if someone has waved you red flag once than stop trying too hard. Trying too much will devalue you, and you will lose self-respect in the process. Love is not who you were expecting and love is not what you can predict.

You curse the person who broke your heart. Please stop cursing! Don’t worry if an individual has cheated on you. Karma is there. Don’t think and analyze anymore. Work on yourself.

You may think I will never get someone as beautiful as my Ex-partner. Well, this is your perspective. If you keep on remembering, again and again, it’s going to piss you off. You really think in this world there was only one beautiful partner? Salute to your thinking. My friend, don’t worry happy ending do exist and we are 7.6 Billion as individuals.

Get your fire and passion back. Rather than soaking your pillow with tears of sadness replace it with tears of happiness. Yes, you can. If you don’t believe in yourself, let me tell you what kind of partner you are going to get in your future.

Someone so great,
Someone so loving,
Someone so kind,
Someone so fun,
Someone so good-looking,
and Someone so well-off.

You’re not going to miss that old snake which left you. Oh! Sorry I mean the person who left you.  Stay away from technology as much as you can. Technology has resulted in the drained of natural human interaction and connection.

If you have lost your loved one I knew no amount of word could help you but all I can say you’re still alive. Life is full of pain, and it’s completely unpredictable. Let me ask you one thing.

Have you ever met someone who says I never had a bad day?

We all do, life doesn’t happen to you, in reality, it happens for you. I promise you something much more beautiful and meaningful is going to happen in your future that is going to completely erase all the pain which you are suffering right now. If you’re having a sad day or you’re in the midst of agony right now. Embrace it, after few years you’re going to think these are the times which made you much stronger emotionally and physically.

Be thankful for closed doors, detours, and roadblocks. They protect you from paths and places not meant for you. Don’t resort back to trying to open that door.

It’s better to be single than to be with someone who doesn’t even see, appreciate or value your worth. Maybe your loved one is not the one which you thought. Perhaps your loved one is in different time zone.

The You that had a rough week. The You who seems to be under constant storm clouds. The You that don’t know how much longer you can hold on. The You that had lost faith and felt invisible.

You’re incredible. You make this world more wonderful. You’re the reason for someone’s happiness. You have so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way, so please hang in there. You got this.

And yeah now put a smile on your face!

Your’s
The one who was once exactly where you are

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