14 ways to overcome fighting with your partner

Learning how to stop fighting with your girlfriend or boyfriend is much more than going to through a checklist or flipping through a manual. It may very well be much harder than the hardest exam you’ve ever given.

Let’s put that thought aside and take a look at tips that will help you stop arguing and fighting with your partner.

1. Stop Swearing

Argue, but Don’t Use Abusive language. Abuse words are just like hot water which when touches body enhances anger and hotness of the body or might even end up scrapping of the skins in ones body. Precaut(ion) yourself from using those words for your partner no matter what.

2. Look at Old Pictures of You With Your Partner

Pictures naturally is a memory on it’s own. According to the definition “A visual representation (of an object, scene, person or abstraction) produced on a surface“. It helps in reminding one of sweet things and life past experiences.

3. Think About The Things That You Did To Impress Your Partner Before You Started Your Relationship

Yeah!!! Think about it!!! Stop dazzling on the future alone. Recall those things back to your brain. If possible start repeating them in an advance way. It helps alot.

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4. Think Of Your Life Without The Company Of Your Partner

Thinking is a medicine which heals alot of things if well used. Don’t session your thoughts on “getting good life without your partner”, rather, think building strong empire with your partner.

5. Introspect: Am I Doing Something Wrong Again And Again?

“Experience they said is the best teacher” but most times, experiences are meaningless if “wisdom” is not included. Give yourself a deep check-up whether you’ve been repeating the same thing your partner kept emphasizing on that he/she doesn’t like. Amend them.

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6. If You Are in a Bad Mood, Back Off

Stop approaching your partners in bad times, if you’re the type that can’t control your emotion while angry or in bad mood.

7. Spend a Few Days Away From Your Partner: But Don’t Party

Get yourself a rest, think about your life. Think about making it big with your partner but never indulge yourself in rocking party just to clear away the thoughts the recent issue(s) had with your partner.

8. Make a List of the Reasons Why You Want to Stop Fighting With Your Partner

Above all, best tips of all is listing out things that caused the recent misunderstanding between your partner, then amend them one by each. Work with these and see yourself glowing and growing stronger in happy relationship with your dear partner.

Do you agree with the above tips? If yes, let’s have your comment(s) below. Don’t forget to share this with your friends. Good morning!!!

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